We've been looking for a church off and on since I moved here. I say "off and on" because we search in little spurts - we'll try a few and then get discouraged, taking several weeks (or months) off until we try again. We're looking for a place that we can have fellowship with our peers, but also worship in a traditional setting, with hymns, prayer, and Biblical teaching.
I'm beginning to think this church does not exist. We've found that most of the people our age aren't into hymns, and would rather plan the Easter pageant than serve in the community. If the music is traditional, the preaching is radical. If the music could be interrupted at any moment with women speaking in tongues (no kidding), the preaching is right on target with the B-I-B-L-E (yes, that's the the Book for me).
Our goal is to find a church by the time Baby Sears arrives. After more than 2 years on the hunt, I can see that we haven't prayed enough about it - and that prayer is the only way we're going to find what we're looking for.